Tuesday, March 15, 2011

The Realness

I miss my husband. I miss him more when I have an itch, I can't scratch (on my back- you pervs) at 11:00 PM. I've had the opportunity to speak with him quite a bit when I'm sitting around really wanting his opinion on something I haven't had to wait too terribly long to get it, so I can't really complain on that front. I do just miss his company, in the car, in the kitchen, at the dinner table, in bed to snuggle with... I have to say, we do the whole pre-deployment-fighting-wonderfulness. The ownership for that belongs to both of us. It's not all him but it's not all me either. We come together in the end, we do eventually see the bigger picture! My point being that while we do love each other we fully understand the other's faults and shortcomings and today I'm missing him.

(and I missed him ALOT last night when I couldn't reach that spot on my back!)

6 comments:

hmb said...

J & I had major blowouts right before he left, too!! That blows!!

Hope the deployment flies for ya!!

Angie said...

Aww!! It will be wonderful when you guys see each other again!

Erin said...

Oh man did the hubby and I go at it when we were gearing up for his deployment! It was horrible! But, normal.

WE also fought through out the deployment. I swear that man would call just to argue with me from 10 time zones away!

But we came back together. We always do. And you will too. :)

And the itch you can't scratch? I had the same problem. Next time, I'm going to invest in a back scratcher so I get less depressed when it happens. :)

Anonymous said...

I call the predeployment arguing PMS: Pre Manuever Syndrome!

Like you, we see the bigger picture :-)

Mr. Superman & Mrs. S. said...

Oh I totally get that. I just don't want to anything we used to do together or stuff he usually does for me.

TASS said...

I miss him too! He always made me laugh when I would call!