Monday, July 6, 2009

41 Days...

So today Nathan (my nephew) helped me decide that the whole having kids thing should really be put on the back burner for a little bit... guess what he did? Guess how he added his two cents to this discussion... HE MOTHER EFFIN' BIT ME! Yes, that's right... ugh huh, that lil mother-lover bit me- in my chub (aka my belly). Why would I possibly want to have a lil' person running around, pooping, crying, always needing me to hug, cold, rock, comfort and soothe them when they're just gonna turn around and BITE ME!?? hmm... decision made!!

In all seriousness after receiving some input from others on this issue my wanting to wait has more to do with the financial responsibility that comes with raising children and babies. I have blogged before about the financial stress we are going to be under when Kevin gets home and that is with just the two of us. Add on the costs of formula, diapers, clothes, shoes, toys, crib, bouncer, bibs, blankets, more clothes, more diapers, dresser, changing table, more clothes, more diapers, swing, high chair, teething rings, infant Motrin, infant Tylenol, BOTTLES, more diapers, more clothes and teething rings I'd be willing to wager a bet that we'd be somewhere in the neighborhood of up-side-down, in the hole, credit-ruined, car re-po'ed... basically it would be seriously BAD business. I can agree with those of you who have said that you are never 100% ready for baby... but to intentionally work at having them and bringing them into a tough financial situation is just irresponsible and ridiculously unfair. Right? I know that tough times will come with or without babies/kids but with where we are and what we foresee coming (if I don't find a job before Kevin redeploys) it just isn't right to pursue this now. No matter how much we may want babies now. Right???


Other than the baby-having issue I have an interview for a secretary position at the elementary school on post tomorrow afternoon. Hopefully that works out. If not I do have something else in the works. While far less glamorous I have to take what I can get. Within reason of course, I can't be out on the corner for a few bucks!!

Hope you all had a great weekend and a blessed holiday! (:

6 comments:

Mrs. G.I Joe said...

Today Robert and I had the baby talk somewhat too and for some reason I thought we had agreed on 4 years until we wanted to try for kids, but he told me today that this was news to him...Lol...Having kids right now would not be wise for us either so I can understand where you two are coming from:) But you'll make a good mother someday and hopefully you're still blogging to where I can see it! Good luck with the interview girly!

Crazy Shenanigans said...

Yeah having kids is NOT on the table at the moment for us. Not for quite awhile! Good luck on your interview!

Niki said...

Good Luck with your interview!!!

Lauren B. said...

good luck w/ your interview!

BSS said...

This was funny and frightening at the same time, haha! Good luck with the job :o)

lola said...

hahah, yes. Matt and I are planning on holding off for a long while because we're just not in a financial place to have them yet... Good for you for recognizing it!